Wondering how to find your passion?
Many people wonder how passion can be developed.
I’ve been one of those people, so today I’m sharing with you what I’ve learned so far about this topic.
No matter how old you are, you can feel lost at any age, and you can need some advice about which direction to take.
However, you probably won’t find what you’re looking for by asking others what to do.
Please note this isn’t a post about changing careers or finding what your purpose in life is.
Instead, in this post, you’ll learn about how to get to know yourself better, so you feel a little less lost in life.
This is about finding what drives you, what makes you feel excited and engaged. It’s about uncovering what makes you come to life and in which areas you can use your full potential.
Nevertheless, finding your passions can serve as an excellent foundation for that.
25 solid steps to find your passion
1. Stop obsessing about finding your ultimate passion
I know how stressful it can be to feel lost.
Trust me, I’ve been there.
But if you get obsessed about “finding your passion” you’ll probably miss essential cues.
Trust the process and be patient with yourself.
People can develop a wide range of passions throughout life.
Instead of wanting to find that single passion, enjoy finding different things you like.
Inevitably, you’ll end up improving in some of them more than in others, and that’s exactly how you end up connecting several skills and talents and come up with something unique.
If you’re obsessed with finding “your passion”, check out this helpful post about How To Finally Stop Obsessing Over “Finding Your Passion”.
2. Understand that finding your passion or passions is a journey, not a destination
Look at it this way: it’s not about the destination (it’s not about that a-ha moment we all crave from time to time), it’s about the journey (it’s about all the exciting new things you try and all the exploring you do to discover your real passions).
Also, forget about that magical “a-ha” moment that makes you realize what you were born for.
It probably won’t happen like that!
Instead, you’ll probably uncover it (or them) little by little.
3. Keep your eyes wide open and your attention super sharp
That thing you’ve been looking for might be right in front of you.
In fact, chances are you already know what you want to do.
You’re just too scared to admit it.
I personally believe (and I think I’ve said this many times before) that we all know deep down what our passions are.
But for some reason, we’re scared to admit it even to ourselves.
Think about it and ask yourself what’s stopping you:
- is it what people may think or say?
- Is it that what you want to do isn’t “respectable”, “hard,” or “prideworthy” enough?
- According to whom?
4. Start with the right mindset
Surround yourself with people who make a living out of their passions.
Make friends with people who love their job.
And learn from others who came before you!
Reading the stories of successful people will give you hope and offer you guidance on your journey.
This is one of the reasons why I love reading non-fiction and autobiographies so much: they teach me that no matter how successful or unreachable some people may seem, they’re only human like you and me.
A book that helped me see that clearly was Becoming, by Michelle Obama.
When Michelle graduated college and started working a corporate job, she realized that wasn’t where she wanted to be.
In her book, Michelle talks about how she went from an unsatisfied lawyer to an education advocate.
Reading her story helped me understand that just because you feel lost after you’ve finished college, doesn’t mean you’re a complete failure, and you’ll never find your true call.
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Get to know people who aren’t afraid to go after what they love.
This will help you see that it is, in fact, possible to enjoy what we do daily and to find something we enjoy so much we don’t mind doing it often.
Also, keep in mind that doing “what we love” doesn’t necessarily mean we’re going to be happy all the time.
So, really pay attention to how hard most people work to make money with what they enjoy doing.
5. Decide if you just want a new hobby
Do you want to find a new activity for your free time?
Or do you want to change careers?
These powerful questions are crucial in the process.
If you realize you just want a new hobby, you won’t mind being patient and trying things out until you find what you’re looking for.
However, if you hate your current job and are looking for new ways to make money, searching for your passion can cause you lots of anxiety.
So, be honest about this question to know if you can just get rid of the unnecessary stress and enjoy the process, or if you need to speed it up a little so you can leave that job that makes you miserable.
6. Join aimlief’s 31-day journaling challenge to find your passion
If you’ve been around for a while, you’ll know that I LOVE journaling.
It’s the perfect tool to vent, to keep a record of your progress, to boost creativity and, of course, to get to know yourself better.
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I’ve made a 31-day journaling challenge to post it here for you and started it myself last week.
To put this challenge together, I went back to all those years when I felt terribly lost and tried to remember what was going on inside my head.
It was a long process!
But now, thanks to this journaling challenge, I’ve felt way more certain about my future, myself and my dreams 🙂
So, I highly recommend you do it with me.
If you’re interested in a free email course for this challenge, let me know!
Here it is:
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7. Network with new people outside your industry
If you’re reading this post because you want to change careers or find a different way to make money to support yourself, this is for you.
Chances are you’re surrounded by people who do the same thing you do for a living.
Network with people with jobs that are nothing like yours and ask them about what they do.
You probably have no idea how many jobs there are out there.
In my experience, it was helpful to chat with different people on LinkedIn.
Also, keep in mind it’s possible that your dream job doesn’t exist exactly like you want it to be.
In that case, you’ll have to create it!
Getting inspired by other people’s jobs can help you do just that.
8. Learn from others
Do you have a friend who loves gardening and would love to teach you about it?
Give it a shot!
Ask your friends or family if they’d be willing to share their knowledge and skills with you.
You’d be surprised by how many different things you can learn, plus you’ll spend time with people you like 😉
9. Practice mindfulness and self-awareness
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If you don’t know yourself, you’ll never know what you’re looking for.
To uncover/discover your passions, you need to be the best at knowing yourself: your values, motivations, fears.
You need to know what motivates you, what drives you crazy, what makes you feel alive.
Practice mindfulness daily to increase your levels of self-awareness and start knowing yourself a little better each time.
An excellent exercise to increase self-awareness is (guess what) journaling!
10. Understand what motivates you
11. Ask yourself what you’d be willing to sacrifice for it
You can’t have it all.
What would you be willing to sacrifice for this?:
- Your free time?
- Time with your family?
- A portion of your savings?
- Sleep? (which I don’t recommend at all, by the way!)
In my case, I have no problem sacrificing my free time for the greater good: I can spend Sundays writing for my blog or learning about online businesses, and I’m still as happy as a sandboy 😀
12. Figure out what you hate to do
For me, it’s been easier to figure out what I don’t like from my current job and career than actually finding out what my next path should be.
If you feel unfulfilled or if you’re ready for a change but don’t know where to star, make a list of the things you don’t like about your life now.
Avoiding the things that make you miserable can guide you.
Beware of this one tho and remember step #11 and #7.
13. Write a list of people you’re envious of and get honest about your reasons to feel that way
Oh, boy… We’ve all felt we’d love to live someone else’s life at least for a second.
Feeling envious of others probably means you’re falling into comparison traps, which of course, isn’t healthy at all, and, for the sake of your mental health, you need to stop doing it.
Remember, you don’t really know what’s going on in someone else’s life, so don’t take everything for granted.
However, if you’ve caught yourself daydreaming about the lives of others, take it as a sign and analyze what you want that they have.
Go deep and be honest:
- Is it their looks?
- Their success?
- How satisfied they seem to be?
- Their money?
- The clothes they wear?
What is it really?
14. Make a list of your skills, no matter how good or bad you’re at it
If you’re anything like me, you’ll have a hard time trying to come up with a list of things you’re good at.
At least at the beginning.
But, if you really try and focus on your skills, no matter your mastery level, I’m sure you can come up with a decent list of practical skills.
So, forget what you know about “being talented” or “being born for something”.
Make a list of skills you’d like to master or monetize, no matter how good or bad you’re at it right now.
15. Merge your skills in a unique way
Once you have it, start brainstorming ideas and maybe ask for help to find a relation between your skills.
Remember, you don’t need to be the best at something to make a living out of it; the unique combination of skills you have is what makes you valuable.
16. Make a list of all the new things you’d try if lack of money and/or time wasn’t an issue
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What would you do in your free time if you worked 5 hours a week?
Let your imagination run free!
And then use your answers to guide you towards what you really care about.
17. Get out of your comfort zone and try things you think you’re “bad” at
I get it.
We’re all naturally good at some things and bad at others.
But what if your desired passion is hiding behind that thing you told yourself years ago you’d never try (or try again) because you sucked at it?
If you desperately wanted to try something new or learn a new skill, did it, failed, and never tried again, it’s about time you give it another shot.
18. Visualize your perfect day
If you could live your perfect life for a day, how would it look like?
How early (or late) would you wake up?
How would your morning routine be?
What would you wear?
Would you own a house, an apartment?
Would you live a minimalist life with little to no possessions?
Picture yourself living the life of your dreams and study every aspect of that visualization carefully.
Think about the food you’d eat, the people you’d surround yourself with, the view from your bedroom’s window, the activities you’d devote your free time to.
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19. Analyze the tiny aspects that make up your favorite moments or activities
Let’s say you were part of a dancing group once, and you enjoyed it a lot, but you quit, and now you miss it.
You might automatically believe that what you loved, and now miss is just dancing, right?
But that’s not necessarily the case.
Maybe dancing isn’t your thing after all, but you miss the sense of belonging, or the camaraderie, or the energy, or the music they used to play there.
Break down the activities you’ve enjoyed into tiny pieces like that to try to figure out exactly what you liked about them (or what you didn’t).
This will help you connect the dots later on!
20. Find a balance between rational thinking and intuition
I’m all about being rational when it comes to big decisions, but I admit that trusting your instinct plays a vital role as well if I’m trying to find out what I really want.
Try to balance both, and you’ll be on the right track and closer to your goal.
21. Uncover patterns in your answers and behaviors
Once you’ve completed aimlief’s journaling challenge to find your passion and given it enough thought, it’s time to face the not-so-easy but still fun part: connecting the dots.
Can you recognize patterns in your answers?
Is there any skill, talent, personality trait, preference, desire, like (or dislike) that repeats itself over several answers?
Can you identify where your answers overlap?
By now, I’m 98% sure you’ll KNOW what you want.
However, admitting it and facing the truth is a whole other step on its own…
22. Beware of resistance
24. Set a date to start
You’re almost all set to start your journey towards finding what you feel passionate about.
Even though this is a process that requires reflection and analysis, it also requires action.
If you never try, you’ll never know. So set a date to start learning and improving.
Don’t wait too long to start.
Use momentum to get the ball rolling. Today.
25. Take a class
Learning about the topics you listed is definitely the best way to start exploring.
There are many great classes, courses, and learning platforms at your fingertips, thanks to the Internet.
You can find a wide range of affordable and even free courses.
And you can also find high-end information and training if that’s what you’re looking for.
Plus, there’s also high-quality and free information available on the Internet to improve your skills and educate yourself!
One of the best platforms to find good and free content is YouTube.
However, if online learning is not your thing, you can still use the Internet to find in-person classes about the topics you’re interested in.
Go ahead and start exploring!
Forget about excuses; you do have time.
In fact, I’m sure you can take the time to reflect, read, and learn.
And if you’re still worried about what others may think of you, remember you can start learning and working on your thing without others knowing it.
Eventually, you’ll get so good at it and so confident, you’ll stop caring about what others may think of you.
Also, remember people spend most of the time inside their heads thinking about themselves.
They probably aren’t thinking about you as much as you believe 🙂